While love is an experience shared between two lovers, your behavior around your man can also impact his state of mind and the happiness of the relationship that you two share.
You may be a great lover. YES…
But you also need to be a great companion to enjoy the pleasures of a happy romance and when men are concern you must and need to keep intriguing them even after 50yrs of marriage…
Praise him in front of others.
When the woman in his life shows her appreciation for him in front of others, he’ll be grateful and glad to have someone who supports him and stands by him.
Make him feel secure.
While men may have epic egos, they’re also extremely fragile when it comes to the matters of the heart. They feel threatened easily, and go into an insecure shell. Avoid making your man feel insecure in the right way and he will express more love towards you.
Take the lead in bed.
Experiment, Yeap that’s what am saying….Be willing to try new things with your man. One of the biggest reasons why couples start getting bored in bed is because of the monotony and boredom of repetition. Keep things sexy and he will always be awed by you.
Motivate him in his endeavors.
You can pick flaws in your man and his ideas, but don’t oppose it without rational judgment. Bring out the best in your man and help him ‘achieve his destiny’ by motivating him and complimenting his achievements.
Be a great cook.
Food truly is the best way to a man’s heart. He may say he doesn’t care if you don’t know how to cook, but try cooking him a fabulous dish and he will experience a gastronomical orgasm….Yeap…learn this one from experience ..
Make him think you need him.
Men are the instinctive protectors. Make him feel like a man by making him believe you are dependent on him. When he truly believes you need him, he will cling to you because it makes him feel good inside. like a lion in a jungle…just ready to protect his cubs….
Give him his space( this is a Must)
Men are different from women when it comes to space. Most women are fine with having people around all the time. Men on the other hand, get annoyed when they don’t get some alone time by themselves. Give each other space, and you will see that your love will blossom better. And you will learnt to appreciate each other more….since most of the time Men forget what they have at home until they feel they are about to loose it all to another king of the jungle.
Ask his help now and then.
All men think they’re intellectuals with exceptional problem solving abilities. As long as you’re listening to his opinion with your eyes wide, he will swell with pride and love. I know it sounds so petty and childish but that’s just one of mans needs.
Look like a million bucks around him.
Look sexy when you’re with him. Getting naked should still be a treat, not a regular occurrence around the house. Dress well and make sure eyes turn when you’re in his arms. men love trophy for some reason they think that is how your should be all the time a polished trophy he won…
All of us need respect. When you’re in love, it’s easy to talk stupid or put down your man in jest, but be careful where to draw the line. Never ridicule him or put him down in public. Let him know you respect him, even if you pull his leg now and then.
Happiness in love comes from the inside, and unless both of you chose to be happy, no amount of gestures can make a difference.
So if you really want to be happy in the relationship, both of you have to make a conscious effort to fill the relationship with love and happiness.